Anonymous said: OP here. I am a bisexual and didn't mean to come off as rude I just think it's very different to like the way naked breasts look and to actually functionally be in a same sex relationship. I feel like some use bisexual leanings as a way to get attention or look edgy/sexier. It brings the rest of us down. Sorry for getting tumblr all in a lather
If someone identifies as something, I’d tend toward taking them at their word. It’s hard enough as is for all of us. Let’s not nitpick each other.
Anonymous said: Have you ever dated a woman? I have a friend who says she is bi but this seems to be purely based on liking how woman's bodies look in tumblr pictures...
This is a gross question to ask a bisexual person. You’re essentially requesting I prove that I like women “for real” and the implication is that I am “pretending” for some reason. Would you ever ask a straight person if they were actually straight even though they’d never had a partner? Would you doubt the identity of a gay person who was a “virgin?” It’s mostly bisexuals who get this sort of “You can’t possibly know unless…” and it’s shitty.
Oppression is cooking being “women’s work,” while the overwhelming majority of top restaurant chefs are male.
Oppression is fashion being a “silly girl thing,” while the top earning designers and CEOs in fashion are male.
Oppression is reducing women to consumers profiting a male system, even in fields that we supposedly dominate.
this is so fucking important.
(Source: regular-snowflake, via northwestmagpie)
Man so this show Constantine is fucking up a bunch already huh?