Anonymous said: OP here. I am a bisexual and didn't mean to come off as rude I just think it's very different to like the way naked breasts look and to actually functionally be in a same sex relationship. I feel like some use bisexual leanings as a way to get attention or look edgy/sexier. It brings the rest of us down. Sorry for getting tumblr all in a lather

If someone identifies as something, I’d tend toward taking them at their word. It’s hard enough as is for all of us. Let’s not nitpick each other.

This is an old article but Nicole Cliffe just reposted it and it is heartbreaking.

Anonymous said: Have you ever dated a woman? I have a friend who says she is bi but this seems to be purely based on liking how woman's bodies look in tumblr pictures...

This is a gross question to ask a bisexual person. You’re essentially requesting I prove that I like women “for real” and the implication is that I am “pretending” for some reason. Would you ever ask a straight person if they were actually straight even though they’d never had a partner? Would you doubt the identity of a gay person who was a “virgin?” It’s mostly bisexuals who get this sort of “You can’t possibly know unless…” and it’s shitty.

Meredith Haggerty interviewed me for this piece about the pathology of comedians.

etspiritusvitae:

rosiesays:

Oppression is cooking being “women’s work,” while the overwhelming majority of top restaurant chefs are male.

Oppression is fashion being a “silly girl thing,” while the top earning designers and CEOs in fashion are male.

Oppression is reducing women to consumers profiting a male system, even in fields that we supposedly dominate.

this is so fucking important.

(Source: regular-snowflake, via northwestmagpie)

teresatothemax:

alcoholicgifts:

zebablah:

decimare:

Chris Pratt Interrupts Interview To French Braid Intern’s Hair

CHRIS STAHP. CHRIS PLS

what is going on

if he learned how to do a twist out I’d stan

I’m attracted to him suddenly.

(Source: chrisprattdelicious)

hipsterinatardis:

snowmercury:

hauntedpamplemousse:

orcasoup:

those moments when straight people assume you’re one of them and you feel like a gay secret agent

lesbionage

bi spy 

it’s an ace case

Secret gaygent.

(via little-hedgehog)

jennylewismusic:

“Just One Of The Guys” - http://youtu.be/Irvcf6dCk-k"The Voyager" out July 29 - http://bit.ly/1p39Xr6

Brie Larson is my actual dream girl.

jennylewismusic:

“Just One Of The Guys” - http://youtu.be/Irvcf6dCk-k

"The Voyager" out July 29 - http://bit.ly/1p39Xr6

Brie Larson is my actual dream girl.

Man so this show Constantine is fucking up a bunch already huh?

paigeyylushh:

bigbardafree:

deciding i was pretty was the best thing that i ever did

one day i was just like

fuck this im pretty

and i was

i’m reblogging this twice because this is probably the truest statement I’ve ever come across. And it holds power and ability for every person struggling within themselves. use this because it will make a difference in your life.

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